Mandy wrote:How come you hit it off so well with my best friends? (MF and Blitz). Does that mean we are going to hit off too?

Because I'm the bomb! ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE.
Mandy wrote:What is your favorite thing about the SS? Least favorite thing?
Favorite thing is how curious everyone is. Least favorite thing is just technical irritation with some of the way the board functions.
Mandy wrote:Favorite thing about today?
Coming home from work early to people I love.
Mandy wrote:Least favorite thing about today?
All the self-hate I'm feeling right now.
Blitz wrote:Well, depends on what you mean by was it worth it. Generally, we should have just gone to pm in those cases. Then also there was that time when we.... nevermind.

Now you have me so curious...
Blitz wrote:How did you find the SS?
Countess told me about it on the chat the other day. I hadn't even heard of it before. I've known about The ToO for years but never joined that one.
Blitz wrote:Are you on other internet forums?
Not anymore. Used to be extremely active on some.
Blitz wrote:How do you think SS could be better?
Enforce an minimum age of something like 13 or 15. Have more board viewing style choices. Moving off-topic responses out of threads would be nice. Way more smilie faces, there's like an 8th of my smilie vocabulary on this board so I'm SUFFERING, man, just suffering.
Miss Friendship wrote:Did you ever get it back? Did it help?
Get what back, Facebook? No. And no, it didn't help. It was very unhealthy.
Miss Friendship wrote:Hmm, maybe agnostic? Anyway... you are you. Completely unique and special in your own way.
*bows and swishes cape* Why thank you. And yes, I've looked into that one, too. I like things being categorized nicely, so I would like to find the right name for what I am. Not in too big a hurry though, for now.
Miss Friendship wrote:So are you saying the "closeness" was just imaginary?
Yes I think the closeness was imaginary. I think all I felt was peace. Many things can make one feel at peace. A quiet evening...a loving embrace...a meal with a lot of carbs.
Miss Friendship wrote:it was more based on personal experiences than sitting down and reading books written by atheists with "facts" that convinced you there was no God?
Correct, my beliefs now are based entirely on life experience, I have never read an atheistic book or researched it at all. The only research I've done was after the fact, just looking at various short descriptions of different thought processes, so I could put myself in a category.
As for the God I grew up believing in, I don't think it really matters if he was portrayed correctly or not...the fact is, if ANYONE was ever in control of giving free will to humans, and they did so, I believe they share the blood on the hands of every murderer and rapist. Whether that may be a Christian God or any other concept of a god, doesn't really matter. If someone is control, and the world we live in is what they allowed, fully knowing what would happen, they are guilty of every sick and evil thing that has been committed in it.
Miss Friendship wrote:I would account this to that innate understanding placed in us that sort of tells us that God exists. ... It's natural. I mean even atheists pray seconds before they die. It happens.
I don't think it's an innate understanding at all. It's two decades of brainwashing. People pray because they are terrified...this goes straight back to "rock bottom", again. They don't pray because they suddenly realize everything they ever believed was a lie... They pray because they're about to die and they're scared out of their minds. Desperation, yet again.
Miss Friendship wrote:Just like we feel "bad" after wounding/hurting someone else. Bad isn't a thing unless God exists.
I disagree. I grew up thinking that morals are something tied directly to God. I don't think they are anymore, whatsoever. Morals are about right and wrong. God is about an afterlife. Among many other things, but to simplify it, yeah. One can be absolutely moral and yet have ZERO belief in any kind of god. Just as someone who believes in God and Heaven can still do horrific things. I couldn't wrap my mind around this for a long time, but it's true. I have friends who have never believed in God, but act more respectfully, treat people more lovingly, and have better values and ethics than most Christians I've known. Morals and religion are entirely separate.
Miss Friendship wrote:I couldn't just give myself a perfectly inward joy when terrible things around me happen.
I've never seen any Christian with perfect joy. You hear it talked about all the time. That light that's supposed to be shining out of them. It's not there. I have never seen it. Christians have been some of the most selfish, cruel, and hateful people I have met. On the flipside, some of the absolute sweetest people in my life have not believed in God. It comes down to personality, not religion.
Miss Friendship wrote:Drunkards don't just "quit" their addiction. They are going to go back... unless they have a higher power.
I think most alcoholics would be offended by that. Careful!
Miss Friendship wrote:I even think to some extent God lets people get to the end of their rope, so they will finally come to Him.
Either we have free will and what happens on earth is due to our choices, or else we are puppets of God. You can't have it both ways. Either He has no control over the end of their rope, or else it's all in His hands, which again, makes Him sadistic. Which is it?
Miss Friendship wrote:As for being brainwashed, well then you could say everyone is brainwashed to a certain extent. I mean, what is Absolute Truth? From your point of view, it's kind of whatever you feel is right. So teaching a child anything is brainwashing. If there is no absolute truth, we have no idea if God exists, or if He doesn't. We don't know how we got here, there is no way to tell.
That's pretty much right. I guess in a perfect world, I wouldn't want to discuss religion or God at all. Doing so is utterly pointless. You can't prove He exists, I can't prove He doesn't. It's laughable when looked at from that point of view. I do it anyway sometimes because like I said...20 years of living it. It doesn't just disappear from your mind. I also wish someone would have opened my eyes years earlier. I'm sure it's pointless to try to open your eyes because you think they're wide open, however. Which is the case with most religious people. And was the case with me. *shrug* People have to come to it on their own, I guess.
Miss Friendship wrote:Is he not OK with you talking with him... or you just would rather not?
He tried to get me to talk to him. But he broke my mom's heart and I would never forgive him for that.
Miss Friendship wrote:Do you do email?
I prefer Skype. PM's and e-mails get to be quite bulky and I like a freer flow of discussion.
Miss Friendship wrote:Why is your best friend in Afghanistan?
It's kind of a military thing.
Miss Friendship wrote:What's your favorite color?
Sapphire blue (my birthstone), hot pink, electric purple, and turquoise.
Sorry most of this was such a freakin' bummer of a response.
Dom