MissFriendship wrote:Did I judge any of you? I judged my rich friends that I do know. Got that? I KNOW them...personally.... I am not sure what kind of example you are looking for....
Saying that the wealthy are not Christians by sole virtue of being wealthy is judgmental, whether you intended it to be or not. There is a difference between critiquing a lifestyle choice and condemning people
en masse.
MissFriendship wrote:(By the way, I sure wish I knew how to "quote" like you all keep doing to what I write, but I don't know how to quote only a sentence at a time. If I knew, I would be quoting your words and replying!

The format is [#quote="name of person you want to quote"]-insert text-[/quote]—except that the hashtag I put at the beginning of the coding isn't actually there; I just put it there so you'd see the format. If you use the full editor, there's a whole toolbar at the top for various functions.
MissFriendship wrote:Strawman? Every argument has a name with you, Eleventh.
That's not something he made up; it's a name used to describe a logical fallacy. The Strawman Fallacy occurs when you take a person's argument, simplify it to the point where it's only tangentially related to what they said, and attack that. Its name comes from the fact that just as someone who beats up on a scarecrow can't claim themselves a boxer, someone who refutes a watered-down and inaccurate version of an argument never actually responded to anything that his or her opponent said.
MissFriendship wrote:Besides why is everyone so freaked out when it comes to the word "judging"??
Probably because you've been making harsh statements about people that you don't know and are then surprised when we get our hackles up. =/ Look, it's one thing to say "Hey, I love you and your problems are ultimately between you and God, but you need to take a look at this thing in your life, because I don't think that this is Biblical" and quite another to claim "People who live affluent lives cannot be Christians because of my personal interpretation of Scripture".
MissFriendship wrote:To accuse me of saying I posses the only legitimate way of viewing things is false and not very kind.
So is claiming that an entire social class is [censored]. You have been saying this whole time that you believe Jesus to be condemning wealth, but instead of understanding that we disagree, you are acting as though we are the ones who are interpreting His teachings incorrectly and that makes us bad people.
it's not about 'deserve'. it's about what you believe. and i believe in love