John Henry wrote:I'd like you to balance these together - there is no male and female & the places where the Bible tells us (1 Corinthians 11, 1 Timothy 2) about a man's authority - I just want to know.
They were speaking of the home and the church; Paul was specifically writing to Timothy about establishing conduct in the church, and 1 Corinthians 11 specifically uses "the head of every
wife is her husband", not "the head of every woman is every man" (emphasis added). Meanwhile, Proverbs 31 talks about a woman who "considers a field and buys it" and "perceives her merchandise as profitable" whose works "praise her in the gates" and whose husband speaks well of her. Lydia, found in Acts 16, was a merchant, and her being a working woman is never condemned. The home and the church are completely different from the workplace and the general public; there are different rules for each place. So I balance that by saying that men and women are equal in the Spirit (neither is better, or indeed gets more special privileges in daily life, than the other), but in the church and the home, women should certainly be respected and valued, but men should take the pastorate and men are to be the leaders in their homes. Does that help clarify?
it's not about 'deserve'. it's about what you believe. and i believe in love