My church, your church, our church.
Posted: Sun Jun 07, 2015 12:37 pm
I have been thinking a lot about Christian denominations lately. Partly because we seem to talk a lot about it here and in debates on the ToO chat room. This makes sense. It is important to talk about this stuff because disagreement can help us understand each other and ourselves much better, however sometimes these conversations can get heated and we can focus on the negatives a little too much. This actually came up a couple of days ago on the chat.
Then there was the Out of the Woods episode of AIO released on the OAC. I won't spoil it for you, but it made me think about this topic from a different perspective. I was home schooled for elementary school. One of the main reasons my mom home schooled us was so we could learn in our own way. There are different learning styles like Kinetic (learn through moving so doing fun activities or even being allowed to move while doing traditional learning activities like going for a walk while answering math questions), visual (learning by reading or looking at maps or other diagrams and taking written tests), and auditory (listening to lectures, having conversations, or answering questions out loud). I understand that different denominations have different theology and that some people have strong convictions about everything even how we should praise God, and I respect that, but I can't help but feel that maybe different people need to worship God in different ways or hear sermons in a different way because they are a unique kind of person with a unique brain that learns and understands and relates to God in a unique way.
I still want to see us discuss things like baptism, communion, worship, and our unique perspectives of the details of atonement, but I also want to see more unity for those of us who believe that God created the world, sent His only son to be fully human while remaining fully God and to die out of love for us, and that we have the Holy Spirit as our helper. In the spirit of unity I was hoping we could all share something about our church that we see as being especially beautiful or helpful to us. I don't want this to be a debate about which type of church is more true or more good, but a place to share things we find beautiful about our churches.
I'll start. I have been to a lot of different types of churches, youth groups, campus groups, and bible studies, but my favourite thing is when I meet in someone's home with a small group of others to discuss the bible, pray, or sing. This may happen for any number of reason: a special prayer or worship meeting, a weekly bible study separate from church, a weekly small group through a church, or even a weekly home church. Whatever the specifics, I love meeting in homes with other believers. Even in university I had a lot of trouble focusing on a lecture, but when we met for seminars (small group discussions after the lecture) I found I learned much more because I could participate. For me, knowing I will be able to talk too helps me listen to what is being said to me and I like being able to ask questions if I'm confused where you can't ask questions in the middle of a sermon.
In a religious setting, I also love home gatherings because there is something deeply beautiful and symbolic about gathering together in a home as if we really are all the family of Christ. I love when we have potlucks because it is like a family sharing food and eating together understanding that we are all different but still unified and talking to share each other's burdens and see how we can help one another. I'm not saying that small groups should replace church completely just that I need a church with a small group element because just as an artist may find they see God in a stained glass window or hear him in a song more than they can glimpse Him through a sermon because of how their brain works, I see God most clearly in a small group settings.
Then there was the Out of the Woods episode of AIO released on the OAC. I won't spoil it for you, but it made me think about this topic from a different perspective. I was home schooled for elementary school. One of the main reasons my mom home schooled us was so we could learn in our own way. There are different learning styles like Kinetic (learn through moving so doing fun activities or even being allowed to move while doing traditional learning activities like going for a walk while answering math questions), visual (learning by reading or looking at maps or other diagrams and taking written tests), and auditory (listening to lectures, having conversations, or answering questions out loud). I understand that different denominations have different theology and that some people have strong convictions about everything even how we should praise God, and I respect that, but I can't help but feel that maybe different people need to worship God in different ways or hear sermons in a different way because they are a unique kind of person with a unique brain that learns and understands and relates to God in a unique way.
I still want to see us discuss things like baptism, communion, worship, and our unique perspectives of the details of atonement, but I also want to see more unity for those of us who believe that God created the world, sent His only son to be fully human while remaining fully God and to die out of love for us, and that we have the Holy Spirit as our helper. In the spirit of unity I was hoping we could all share something about our church that we see as being especially beautiful or helpful to us. I don't want this to be a debate about which type of church is more true or more good, but a place to share things we find beautiful about our churches.
I'll start. I have been to a lot of different types of churches, youth groups, campus groups, and bible studies, but my favourite thing is when I meet in someone's home with a small group of others to discuss the bible, pray, or sing. This may happen for any number of reason: a special prayer or worship meeting, a weekly bible study separate from church, a weekly small group through a church, or even a weekly home church. Whatever the specifics, I love meeting in homes with other believers. Even in university I had a lot of trouble focusing on a lecture, but when we met for seminars (small group discussions after the lecture) I found I learned much more because I could participate. For me, knowing I will be able to talk too helps me listen to what is being said to me and I like being able to ask questions if I'm confused where you can't ask questions in the middle of a sermon.
In a religious setting, I also love home gatherings because there is something deeply beautiful and symbolic about gathering together in a home as if we really are all the family of Christ. I love when we have potlucks because it is like a family sharing food and eating together understanding that we are all different but still unified and talking to share each other's burdens and see how we can help one another. I'm not saying that small groups should replace church completely just that I need a church with a small group element because just as an artist may find they see God in a stained glass window or hear him in a song more than they can glimpse Him through a sermon because of how their brain works, I see God most clearly in a small group settings.